Can We Still Sit at the Same Table? What If Mornings

Can We Still Sit at the Same Table?

What-If Mornings with Dr. Yinka Dixon

Season 2 Episode 3 (S2-E3) 

 July 2025 

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What if sitting at the table again wasn’t about restoring the relationship, but reclaiming your peace?


Hello dear friend,


Welcome to this month’s heart-stirring edition of What-If Mornings with Dr. Yinka Dixon, where we pause to reflect, realign, and renew.

One voice. One thought. One shift at a time.


This July, I’ve been thinking about tables.

Not just the physical ones.

But the emotional ones.  

Those sacred spaces where trust, love, hurt, and sometimes silence, gather.

There’s a moment in every healing journey where you’re faced with a choice:

* Do I sit again at the table with someone who once broke me?
* Do I risk presence after pain?

Or…

* Do I stay away, keeping peace by keeping my distance?


But what if… the answer is neither?

What if you can show up - not to fix, not to return, but to reclaim your place in the world as someone whole again?



πŸŽ™️ This month’s question:

Can we still sit at the same table?

Not for reconciliation, but for reclamation.
Not to deny the wound, but to declare the healing.

We have often been taught that forgiveness means returning to the place where you were hurt, or reconciling with the person that hurt you.

But.. What if that is not entirely complete as a healing action? 

Perhaps Forgiveness is just means release yourself from more pain.

Maybe showing up at the table is not about pretending it didn’t happen, but about showing that the pain did not "finish" or destroy you.



πŸ’­ Let’s reflect:

  • What if sitting again was an act of courage, not comfort?

  • What if healing meant boundaries, not blame?

  • What if you are the healing energy the room now needs?

This month, I invite you to listen, to breathe through the discomfort, and ask:

Can I sit with myself fully, before I sit with anyone else?


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Keep on Believing.
Keep Building.
You are not Behind. 

You are Becoming.
Keep Hope Alive.

With love & grace,
Dr. Yinka Dixon
Queen of New Beginnings

"What-If Mornings" With Dr.  Yinka Dixon - July 2025


1 comment:

Tony Ajayi said...

"Wow, I'm blown away by your profound insights on redefining anniversaries and embracing new beginnings! Your words are like a breath of fresh air, encouraging us to seek peace and growth in our relationships. Your devotional approach is truly inspiring, and I'm grateful for your wisdom. You're a beacon of hope and guidance, shining brightly for all to see. Thank you for sharing your thoughtful perspectives – they're truly a blessing!" πŸ™Œ